hanimun

Tadi di wall Fbku aq tulis.." anak2 dah sekolah kayak biasa, aa' libur...mo hanimun ah..jgn ganggu yak!"
Anda2 yg tahu diriku yg selalu dudul barangkali kalian akan berkomen macam2 n seru2 n lucu2 seperti yg sudah kalian lakukan di Fb ku tadi wahai sohib2ku.

Tapi sebenernya aq bener2 sedang berhanimun tadi. Bukan pergi kepulau cantik naik kapal pesiar yang mahal...bukan makan dgn candle light di restoran yang mahal, bukan pergi naik pesawat keluar negara. Tapi kami serius ber quality time berdua menikmati waktu yang singkat hanya dengan "berdating" sebentar.

Dimulai dgn sarapan bersama dikedai roti canai Pakcik Arif langganan semua warga Indonesia disini. Pakcik yang baik hati n tidak sombong. Selalu tersenyum n ramah.
Diwarung ini kami menikmati makan berdua..hidangan sederhana ala Malaysia. Sudah gak ada pilihan lagi coy! Makanan Malaysia sebenernya "berat" bagi kita. Kalo dibilang tidak enak itu pastilah kita akan dibilang sombong...tapi terus terang saja..agak susah membiasakan lidah ini dengan segala macam makanan sarat bumbu yang akhirnya membuat ketek jadi bau itu.
Tapi... kari roti canai Pakcik emang ringan n sweeeet....mayan...makan sambil2 mengenang martabak palembang..hihihihihi...ada kesamaannya.

Balik lagi ke hanimun kami tadi. Setelah suap2an n saling lap mulut yang belepotan kuah kari kita juga berseda gurau dengan mesranya. (Yang pengen muntah siapin kresek ya...ini lom seberapaaaa...
Lalu kami melanjutkan perjalanan kami ke Bank untuk membayar segala hutang n tagihan2 jg bil2. (yup..kita banyaak hutang n tagihaaaannnn hahahahaha...yg penting gak lupa bayaar boooo!!) Entah kenapa aq milih bank yg disebelah sanaaaa...yang kami harus menyeberangi jalanan yang ramai n padat. Yak, apa lagi yang aq harapkan n nantikan kalo bukan suamiku akan merengkuh pinggangku n terbirit2 menyeretku...Argghh..mesra sekali bro...kapan terakhir dikau menyeberang jalan bergandengan n berpelukan mesra dengan istrimu???Kapan terakhir kali dikau begitu cemas melihat istrimu yang dah gembrot terbirit2 disampingmu karena pake high heel tapi ketakutan nyebrang jalan???
Sungguh hubby kusayang...diantara kejadian hanimun hari ini, drama menyeberang jalan sambil berpelukan tadi sungguh menyentuh hati...luv u more n more hiks...hiks...( nah mulai ada yg muntah kan...)

Setelah keluar dari Bank itu aq dengan muka memelas bilang ke hubby bahwa aq dah lama nggak beli tas...beliin napa (sambil pasang muka berghairah hihihi,...) Mengejutkan sekali doi langsung tanya aq mau beli tas apa n ditoko mana. Sebagai seorang istri yang jaim n tau diri aq jawab dengan tersipu2..."Vincci aja sayang"...karena itulah merk kesukaanku (halah bilang aja karena Vincci murah ah!)
Orgghh..selama ini aq suka rada2 sembunyi2 kalo beli tas...tapi tadi memilih berdua n ngaca2 sambil dinilai suami memang lain sensasinya (aq yakin sekali itu si pramuria cemburu abis liat kemesraan kita sayang...).
Yep dapet tas baru. lalu apa lagi??? Ya tentu beli keperluan rumah tangga..mulai dari rinso n minyak goreng mpe susu anak2....

Dan kami segera tersadar dengan waktu yang sudah mefeeettt...kami harus menjemput anak2 sekolah. Ahhh cepat sekali waktu berlalu. Dalam sekerlip mata kami tersadar bahwa kami adalah pasangan pengantin lama beranak 4 n terbirit dikejar pekerjaan n kewajiban. Tapi sungguh aq nggak akan melupan hari ini. Ya 22 Juni...berbarengan dgn ultah Jakarta (pa hubungannya..) ...kita berdua bagai anak SMA...hihihihi....( muntah teroooossss)

Nasehatku buat para pasangan pengantin lama...segarkan hubungan anda dgn jalan2 berdua saja...nggak usah mengada2 n menghayal seperti Cinderela (tp kl bisa n mampu tentu gak ada salahnya). Cukup berdua saja...dikamar sajapun boleeehhh...(wink wink) ato outdoor kayak aq tadi....

Sekarang suami sudah tertidur dengan damai...apa salahnya kita cium lembut dahi, pipi n bibirnya. N bisikkan terimakasih karena sudah mencintai, menyayangi n tentu aja menafkahi..(lahir bathin tentyunya boooo). Kekayaan tidak bisa membeli kebahagiaan...walo nggak bohong materi juga utama (secara kita cewek termatre didunia...)

Bersyukur membuat kita merasa "cukup"

Razia orang cantik

Udah beberapa hari ini Polisi Kerteh- Paka- Kemaman, daerah lewatan aq mondar mandir..selalu ngadain road block (razia). Dan kalo menurutku selalu di jam yang salah..masa razia disaat aq mau kepasar lah..habis ngater anak2 lah, ato mau ngemall ma teman2 lah. Arghh...nyebeliiinnn....
Biasanya disini kalo ada razia ketat begini pasti karena ada kejadian apa2 . Misalnya kayak beberapa waktu lalu di Kuala Terengganu..ibu kota state yang aq tempati ini ada demonstari besar2an yang pendemonya isu nya didatangkan dari tempat2 lain seperti Kuantan n Kuala Lumpur...Maka mulai lah polisi merazia setiap mobil yang lewat. Biasanya polisi akan mecurigai mobil yang didalamnya ada beberapa orang laki2...Yah kalo mereka nggak bisa mbuktiin apa n kemana tujuan mereka....ya pasti di masukin ke lokap ( penjara) dulu deh (dari kata lock up).

Nah seminggu yang lalu aq termasuklah dijejeran mobil2 yang ngerembet n ngerayap nunggu diperiksa 1-1. Ada yg dilewatin aja ma polisi. Ada juga yg dipelototin tapi tetep disuruh lewat, ada yang disuruh minggir n ditilang, ada yg diwawancara dsb dll deh.
Weks entah salah makan apa tuh polisi..aq yang kiut n biasanya gak pernah kena dalam setiap razia malah disuruh minggir. Minggirlah aq dengan bingung n deg2an. Polisi itu juga segera menghampiriku. Dengan senyumnya yang paling manis dia memberi salam. Tentu aja aq coba jawab sambil memberikan senyum manis jg..tapi aq dapat merasakan senyum ku sepet...mungkin karena aq ketakutan kaleee.
P: " maaf menggangu perjalanan puan.."
Aq: (nelen ludah mbil ngomel dlm hati..udah tau ngganggu napa masih aja....) " Eh..anu...tak lah.."
P:" Boleh tengok lesen memandu (SIM)?"
Aq: (ngerogoh2 dompet didalam tas LV ku ituh (hueeekkks hihihihih..) nyari2 dompet ...adoooh kemana tuh dompet..ni dia.Langsung aja kuberikan SIM ku dgn tidak mengatakan apa2.. lagian mau ngomong apa seeehhh!!! yang ada pengen pipis..
Dan..aq tau banget..pasti di SIM itu ada tandanya kalo aq ini warga asing malaysia.
Pak P membolak balik SIM ku...memperhatikan mobil jadulku...tapi gak ketemu kekurangannya hahahahaha...)
P: "Ada passport?"
Aq: "Tak bawa..ada i-card aja"
P: (bolak balik...bolak balik kartu) "Puan daripada mana?"
Aq: (hehehehe pertanyaan ini tipikal bgt kalo orang malaysia mau tau asal kita dari mana..tapi aq belagak pilon...aq anggap aja si Polisi nanya aq barusan dari mana..) "mmm...saya baru aja antar anak saya sekolah disekolah Cina tu n ini mau balik rumah..kenapa Ncik? Ada yang salah?
P: (doi mesem2...aq tau doi mengharapkan aq menjawab dari Indonesia... n pertanyaan standard berikutnya adalah..Indonesia mane? disini buat apa? kerje ke?...males banget makanya. Lalu karena tidak mendapatkan jawaban yg diinginkan tapi gak juga ada alasan yang kokoh untuk nangkep aq dipersilahkan lewat dgn hormat)
Aq: (hah..sekarang baru aq kasi dia senyum paling kiutku...)

Itu cerita seminggu yang lalu..nah ini cerita 3 hari yang lalu. Pokoknya ada razia lagi...Subhanallah..aq disuruh minggir lagi...tapi pas dia ndeketin buru2 dia minta maaf karena salah liat..stiker dikaca depan mobil jadulku ituh katanya tadi kayak nunjukin angka 2008..berarti dah expired..ternyata setelah dipelototin 2009..halah...pak Polisiii...dikau buat aq lemes aja.

Dan inilah cerita tadi pagi...kali ini jalan dibuat sangat sempit banget. Semua ngerembet kayak keong. Perasaanku tiba2 kok nggak enak...hiks dari kejauhan terlihat polisi2 yang bertugas serem2 amat. Bawa pentungan lagi..nggak pernah2nya selama ini. Sambil ngerembet aq mbatin dalam hati...tempo hari waktu ditanya Sim ma Passpot aq lolos. Trus razia satunya lagi waktu dicek stiker road tax aq juga lolos. Lah sekarang razia apa??? Oorrrghhh aq kok jadi takut...aq tau ini razia apa...n aq CONFIRM pasti aq ketangkep...aq deg2an ... lemeeesss...noleh2 kebelakang n liat2 kesempatan lewat spion bisa nggak kira2 kalo aq mau muter balik...
Tiba2 kesempatan itu datang...mobil dibelakangku tiba2 berjarak agak jauh kira2 10 meteran. Secepat kilat aq ambil ancang2 n ciiiiiiitttt...aq muter balik kaboooooor...!!!
Yup itu pasti RAZIA ORANG CANTIK! n aq pasti bakal ketangkep...mending balik kanaaaaannn!!


(*pengen nyambit gak?)

You must know this man

(While I was surfing here n there... reading, watching n browsing... I found this article,...sooo touchy coz all of these confessions n testimonials weren't come from Muslims. Actually,..they appreciate our Prophet very much..)

You may be an antheist or an agnostic; or you may belong to any of the religious denominations that exist in the world today. You may be a communist or a believer in democracy and freedom. No matter what you are, and no matter what your ideological and political beliefs, personal and social habits happen to be - you must still know this man.

ENCYCLOPEDIA BRITANNICA confirms:
"....a mass of detail in the early sources show that he was an honest and upright man who had gained the respect and loyalty of others who were like-wise honest and upright men." (Vol. 12)

GEORGE BERNARD SHAW said about him:
"He must be called the Saviour of Humanity. I believe that if a man like him were to assume the dictatorship of the modern world, he would succeed in solving its problems in a way that would bring it much needed peace and happiness." (THE GENUINE ISLAM, Singapore, Vol. 1, No. 8, 1936)

He was by far the most remarkable man that ever set foot on this earth. He preached a religion, founded a state, built a nation, laid down a moral code, initiated numerous social and political reforms, established a powerful and dynamic society to practice and represent his teachings and completely revolutionized the worlds of human thought and behavior for all times to come.

"HIS NAME IS MUHAMMAD" May Peace of God Be Upon Him (pbuh)
He was born in Arabia in the year 570 C.E. (common era), started his mission of preaching the religion of Truth, Islam (submission to One God) at the age of forty and departed from this world at the age of sixty-three.

During this short period of 23 years of his Prophethood, he changed the complete Arabian peninsula from paganism and idolatry to worship of One God, from tribal quarrels and wars to national solidarity and cohesion, from drunkenness and debauchery to sobriety and piety, from lawlessness and anarchy to disciplined living, from utter bankruptcy to the highest standards of moral excellence. Human history has never known such a complete transformation of a people or a place before or since - and IMAGINE all these unbelievable wonders in JUST OVER TWO DECADES.

Lamartine, the renowned historian speaking on the essentials of human greatness wonders:

"If greatness of purpose, smallness of means and astounding results are the three criteria of human genius, who could dare to compare any great man in modern history with Muhammad? The most famous men created arms, laws and empires only. They founded, if anything at all, no more than material powers which often crumbled away before their eyes. This man moved not only armies, legislation, empires, peoples and dynasties, but millions of men in one-third of the then inhabited world; and more than that, he moved the altars, the gods, the religions, the ideas, the beliefs and souls....his forbearance in victory, his ambition, which was entirely devoted to one idea and in no manner striving for an empire; his endless prayers, his mystic conversations with God, his death and his triumph after death; all these attest not to an imposture but to a firm conviction which gave him the power to restore a dogma. This dogma was two-fold, the unity of God and the immateriality of God; the former telling what God is, the latter telling what God is not; the one overthrowing false gods with the sword, the other starting an idea with the words.

"Philosopher, orator, apostle, legislator, warrior, conqueror of ideas, restorer of rational dogmas, of a cult without images, the founder of twenty terrestrial empires and of one spiritual empire, that is MUHAMMAD. As regards all the standards by which Human Greatness may be measured, we may well ask, IS THERE ANY MAN GREATER THAN HE?" (Lamartine, HISTOIRE DE LA TURQUIE, Paris, 1854, Vol. II, pp 276-277)

The world has had its share of great personalities. But these were one-sided figures who distinguished themselves in but one or two fields, such as religious thought or military leadership. The lives and teachings of these great personalities of the world are shrouded in the mist of time.

There is so much speculation about the time and place of their birth, the mode and style of their life, the nature and detail of their teachings and the degree and measure of their success or failure that it is impossible for humanity to reconstruct accurately the lives and teachings of these men.

Not so this man. Muhammad (pbuh) accomplished so much in such diverse fields of human thought and behavior in the fullest blaze of human history. Every detail of his private life and public utterances has been accurately documented and faithfully preserved to our day. The authenticity of the record so preserved are vouched for not only by the faithful followers but even by his prejudiced critics.

Muhammad (pbuh) was a religious teacher, a social reformer, a moral guide, an administrative colossus, a faithful friend, a wonderful companion, a devoted husband, a loving father - all in one. No other man in history ever excelled or equaled him in any of these different aspects of life - but it was only for the selfless personality of Muhammad (pbuh) to achieve such incredible perfections.

MAHATMA GANDHI, speaking on the character of Muhammad, (pbuh) says in YOUNG INDIA:
"I wanted to know the best of one who holds today's undisputed sway over the hearts of millions of mankind....I became more than convinced that it was not the sword that won a place for Islam in those days in the scheme of life. It was the rigid simplicity, the utter self-effacement of the Prophet, the scrupulous regard for his pledges, his intense devotion to this friends and followers, his intrepidity, his fearlessness, his absolute trust in God and in his own mission.

These and not the sword carried everything before them and surmounted every obstacle. When I closed the 2nd volume (of the Prophet's biography), I was sorry there was not more for me to read of the great life."

THOMAS CALYLE in his HEROES AND HERO WORSHIP, was simply amazed as to:
"how one man single-handedly, could weld warring tribes and wandering Bedouins into a most powerful and civilized nation in less than two decades."

DIWAN CHAND SHARMA wrote:
"Muhammad was the soul of kindness, and his influence was felt and never forgotten by those around him." (D.C. Sharma, THE PROPHETS OF THE EAST, Calcutta, 1935, pp. 12)

EDWARD GIBBON and SIMON OCKLEY speaking on the profession of ISLAM write:
"'I BELIEVE IN ONE GOD, AND MAHOMET, AN APOSTLE OF GOD' is the simple and invariable profession of Islam. The intellectual image of the Deity has never been degraded by any visible idol; the honor of the Prophet has never transgressed the measure of human virtues; and his living precepts have restrained the gratitude of his disciples within the bounds of reason and religion." (HISTORY OF THE SARACEN EMPIRES, London, 1870, p. 54)

Muhammad (pbuh) was nothing more or less than a human being. But he was a man with a noble mission, which was to unite humanity on the worship of ONE and ONLY ONE GOD and to teach them the way to honest and upright living based on the commands of God. He always described himself as, 'A Servant and Messenger of God,' and so indeed every action of his proclaimed to be.

Speaking on the aspect of equality before God in Islam, the famous poetess of India, SAROJINI NAIDU says:
"It was the first religion that preached and practiced democracy; for, in the mosque, when the call for prayer is sounded and worshippers are gathered together, the democracy of Islam is embodied five times a day when the peasant and king kneel side by side and proclaim: 'God Alone is Great'... I have been struck over and over again by this indivisible unity of Islam that makes man instinctively a brother." (S. Naidu, IDEALS OF ISLAM, vide Speeches & Writings, Madras, 1918, p. 169)

In the words of PROF. HURGRONJE:
"The league of nations founded by the prophet of Islam put the principle of international unity and human brotherhood on such universal foundations as to show candle to other nations." He continues: "The fact is that no nation of the world can show a parallel to what Islam has done towards the realization of the idea of the League of Nations."

The world has not hesitated to raise to divinity, individuals whose lives and missions have been lost in legend. Historically speaking, none of these legends achieved even a fraction of what Muhammad (pbuh) accomplished. And all his striving was for the sole purpose of uniting mankind for the worship of One God on the codes of moral excellence. Muhammad (pbuh) or his followers never at any time claimed that he was a Son of God or the God-incarnate or a man with divinity - but he always was and is even today considered as only a Messenger chosen by God.

MICHAEL H. HART in his recently published book on ratings of men who contributed towards the benefit and upliftment of mankind writes:
"My choice of Muhammad to lead the list of the world's most influential persons may surprise some readers and may be questioned by others, but he was the only man in history who was supremely successful on both the religious and secular levels." (M.H. Hart, THE 100: A RANKING OF THE MOST INFLUENTIAL PERSONS IN HISTORY, New York, 1978, p. 33)

K. S. RAMAKRISHNA RAO, an Indian Professor of Philosophy in his booklet, "Muhammad, The Prophet of Islam," calls him the "PERFECT MODEL FOR HUMAN LIFE." Prof. Ramakrishna Rao explains his point by saying:
"The personality of Muhammad, it is most difficult to get into the whole truth of it. Only a glimpse of it I can catch. What a dramatic succession of picturesque scenes! There is Muhammad, the Prophet. There is Muhammad, the Warrior; Muhammad, the Businessman; Muhammad, the Statesman; Muhammad, the Orator; Muhammad, the Reformer; Muhammad, the Refuge of Orphans; Muhammad, the Protector of Slaves; Muhammad, the Emancipator of Women; Muhammad, the Judge; Muhammad, the Saint. All in all these magnificent roles, in all these departments of human activities, he is alike a hero."

Today after a lapse of fourteen centuries, the life and teachings of MUHAMMAD (pbuh) have survived without the slightest loss, alteration or interpolation. They offer the same undying hope for treating mankind's many ills, which they did when he was alive. This is not a claim of Muhammad's (pbuh) followers but also the inescapable conclusion forced upon by a critical and unbiased history.

The least YOU could do as a thinking and concerned human being is to stop for a moment and ask yourself: Could these statements sounding so extraordinary and revolutionary be really true? And supposing they really are true and you did not know this man MUHAMMAD (pbuh) or hear about him, isn't it time you responded to this tremendous challenge and put in some effort to know him?

It will cost you nothing but it may prove to be the beginning of a completely new era in your life.

We invite you to make a discovery of this wonderful man, Muhammad (pbuh), the like of whom never walked on the face of this earth.
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wo ai ni...

Seperti biasa njemput adek Siti les bahasa Mandarin dirumah gurunya. Karena ada yang mau dibeli aq ajak dulu adek Siti mampir ke mini market terdekat. Baru aja sampai dipintu mini market adek Siti dah senyum2 ngeliat gadis kecil seumuran dia.
Lalu mereka berdialog akrab sekali..

Adek Siti: cing cong cang cing cong cing cang cing cong..
Temennya: cong cing cang cing cong cing cang cing cong..
Adek Siti: cing cing cing cong cong cang cang..
Temennya: cing ceng cang cong cing cing cing cing...
Adek Siti: cing cing..byeeee!!!
Temennya: cang cing ceng ..byeee!!!
Aq: terharu...,pilu...,lesu...,kelu...,mati kutu.....,malu....
(hati kecil ku): sokoooorrrrr mang enak dicuekin hihihihihi...

yihaaaa...

Adakah kebahagiaan yang bisa melebihi ketika sang buah hatiku pulang keruumah? Dan hidup, tidur, makan, ketawa, lari2, tidur2 n tangis2an bersama lagi? Gak ada dong...ya, inilah kebahagiaan terindah n terlengkap . Mas Adit pulang kemaren...walo cuma seminggu disini kita semua hepiiiiii...gak bisa digambarkan dengan kata2.

Mendengar pengalamannya yang lucu2, ada juga yang menegangkan bahkan cerita kesehariannya yang sibuk n full of activity. Arrghh...ada yg bilang baru juga SMA anaknya..segitunya...Hah...bagi seorang ibu apa ada perbandingan lain selain anaknya yg paling hebat. Bahkan bila anak tersebut cacat sekalipun..bagi seorang ibu anaknya tetap lah the best.

Jadi inilah rekaman kebahagian kami, ayah, bunda n adik2nya...

Sekarang mas Adit dah balik lagi ke jogja....tetap kekal berdoa untukmu sayang...